Hello Friends,
It’s Friday and it’s time for a new “Dear Burt”.
I loved reading all your comments after you received my gift last week! I’m really thrilled that you appreciated it but even more so, that many of you have said it has helped already!
In this week’s video, I’m going to show you my latest photo montage. Then, I will answer some of your questions from last week… BUT a little bit differently this time…
I want to share with you, “My” definition of love.
Looking forward to your comments and more questions for next week. I hope you get some benefit from my thoughts.
Sincerely,
Burt

My name is Burt Goldman. I’m one of those “lucky people” who discovered a secret early in life. For the last 50 years, I have been traveling the world and meeting and studying spiritual masters from every inch of our planet. Now, at the age of 82, I’m ready to share with the world what I have learned. I started this blog to be able to share with you my most valuable teachings and insights I have gained over the past few decades. Here, you’ll find plenty of valuable information on meditation, energy healing, spirituality, and my latest revelation, Quantum Jumping. I look forward to connecting with you and I sincerely hope you enjoy being a part of this blog.





Mr.Goldman And Again THANK-YOU SIR
Doug Williams
Dear Burt Goldman: I love your teaching today…I wish it could be brought to schools and businesses all over.
It is interesting, because lately I have been starting to bless everything, when I think of it and give thanks for everything…whether it is negative or postitive. Very interesting things have been happening. Less stress, more joy and enjoyment in doing everyday things.
Keep spreading the word…and yes, God Bless you and yours too. God is Awesome and beyond our total comprehension. He is All! He is the “I AM”…
Sincerely,
Sherry
Hello Burt,
I just checked out the blog now
We talked on the phone just today i think. I hope you dont have any troubles with the computer. Indeed you have pretty interesting things here.
Keep up the good work !!
‚Adrian
Thank you sir,for all your wisdom you share with the world and me.Teach us how to evoke and channelise our energies to resist all negative thoughts within us and around us. Iam seeking for your blessing and promise to beholden nameyour name where ever i find my self.
shantanu
15/10/2009
Hermes Trismegistus and The Seven Principles
Burt you amaze me. I have been happier than I have in years, after only listeing to your tapes for a couple of days.I love your definition of love and I must love you two, because I feel 100% postive thoughts about you.
It took me a couple of months to order the mind box due to finances and one of your techniqes has already paid for the product with money left over.I am keepin a journal to share with you because in a couple of months I know I will be amazing you. G/B Thank You for showing me how to better my life and the ones aound me.
Dear Burt, I have your Quantum Jumping I and II programs. The first one was a little disappointing — but I did learn some things to add to my other meditation techniques. Quantum Jumping II seemed too good to pass up — and I’m not disappointed. There’s a lot of enjoyable information. I still have a meditation induction that gets me deeper than anyone else’s, but other than that, it’s pretty good. Here’s the little miracle I want to share with all of you:
You teach how to make Quantum Water in your QJII program as a bonus. Well, I’ve been trying it out. I’ve programmed different waters for weight loss, clearer skin, and just being plain healthy! Well, I was eating breakfast this morning and I started rubbing my left wrist out of a habit of mine because I have a ganglian cyst there I’ve had for years. But… my wrist felt… flat. Upon further inspection and rubbing all over the place, I’ve found that the ganglian cyst I’ve had since the 6th or 7th grade (I’m 19 and a freshman in college now) is GONE! I’m finally free of it’s annoying, sensitive, painful existance! I never wanted to have it drained because it would most likely grow back, removing it sounded like too much trouble, and I know they’re called “Bible Cysts” because in the old days they’d smash them with the Bible — but that sounded WAY too painful and I’m sure Jesus had a better way of healing (I’m not a Christian, but if I was, that would be a poor way to honor Jesus’s memory).
I’m now going to keep trying to clear my skin, lose some weight, and heal my backpain from driving. Now, here’s a question for you Burt that I’m sure quite a few men wish they could ask:
What kind of technique would you use to help with penis growth? Not necessarily to replace a doctor’s recommendation, exercises, or pills that could help — but something that could complement the process, safely, or even stand alone has a healthy alternative?
Hi Burt,
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us =)
You’ve helped me clarify why I always enjoy the process of cleaning up my studio every morning.
It’s not that I enjoy the cleaning itself, but it’s because I LOVE living and working in a clean, clear space and I LOVE watching the gradual improvement of my environment as I do the work!
The Anonymous Guru
love this statement, when you hate doing something view at the results, and anchor another meaning to it, I will defenitely act on this
lots of dutch love
leonie
Awesome comments. I see a lot of relationships with your works and the works described in my favorite books ( Life and Teachings of the Masters of the Far East). My grandfather gave me the first book of the series and i’ve had an open minded yearnig ever since. I was just curious of your experience with the books. I must say that i found a truth in them that brings forth a lot energy in life. I have the Mind Box but hav’t made it all the way though it. Well i guess im curious on other peoples feelings especially yours on how these books relate to your percieved reality
What a great way to look at things. Just changing the words gives a whole new perspective on what we “don’t like’. First off I hade to really listen to myself– the words and thoughts and change the message. Really works. Thanks
Janet
I LOVE this definition!
Thanks again Burt. Diamonds are forever. Thanks for sparkling up the world the way you do.
Dear Burt,
I say prayers for those in trouble, but can I reinforce them by using quantum jumping? please tell me how I can
help alleviate other people’s stress.
Thank you.
Thank you for sharing.
Kim
Hi Burt, can you to talk about Hermes Trismegistus please!
Nice post Burt, I don’t believe in GOD, but in the Universe, as it is magnificent! I have tried for about 7 years to tolerate the man who lives here in my house, long story but can find nothing positive in him, so my son and I just try to live our lives in love and positive thinking and I try to block the mans negative babble Ü Are my feelings holding me back? Yes, am sure they are. So I hope to make enough $ in the next few months to move and live in a happy joyous home!
Dear Burt
Thank you so much for sparkling up my life. It was a diamond.XXXX
Thanks for being such a grand person
You will be amazed at how you have been walking around in circles all these years, as if in a maze. Your entrapment in this cycle of violence has been an a-maze-ment, and your release from this cycle of violence will be achieved by your at-one-ment — or what you would call atonement.
The New Revelations
Thanks for all free lessions.I will send my comments in few days.
Thanks for this description. It’s gonna help for sure.
Dear Burt You define ‘Love’ beautifully and both short stories is exactly the same conditions we went throught
we are in our 60 years young. This Corrective information came past our time but we could advice our childrens (positive thinking) Thanks a million
K C Lam (malaysia)
Hi, Burt,
I can not express how true you are, postive outlook is the key. Remember attraction brings what you think. I want to have positive people in my life and sooner or later I will attract a positive person in my life.
Thanks again,
Nancy
Hi Burt,
This was excellent! Thanks a Million.
Regards,
Bindu
Hi Burt — couldn’t log onto your video all day! I love listening to your diamonds of wisdom so much I found myself hating my computer for frustrating me!
I agree with your definition — love is seeing the positive. I would add for relationships — “and wishing the best for the other.”
What a difference an attitude can make. Love, gratitude, appreciation — they all are needed to make life easier. I love my house, I am grateful to have a roof over my head and I appreciate the security the house gives me — so whenever I “have to” make a repair, clean or pay the mortgage, I remember the real reason why I am doing those things — to show my love. This attitude works in a relationship too!
As always, you make me feel happy and I wish the best for you!!
Thanks Burt, your definition of love brought a laugh to my lips, a tear to my eye and smile to my face.
That definition was a real eye opener to how the negatives creep up on us without noticing and put our lives in the shade or into darkness.
My job involves restoration of antique chandeliers. Over the years I’ve come to hate the stripping down, cleaning, polishing, lacquering, rebuilding and rewiring; but I still love the end result. I get a kick every time I finish a job.
Now I can see the finished job before I start and can love it all the way through because all my actions are building up to the big finish and I get a bigger kick than before!!
Thanks Burt, you are truly Magic!
i am already excited after reading all these comments , as the video downloads.
you live in all hearts
THANKYOU BURT YA HELPED ME TONIGHT FOR MY ATTITUDE AS I’M FEELEN SO TORN FROM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE AND DOMESTIC ABUSE SITUATION , YOUR WORDS ARE LIKE DIAMONDS TO MY EARS ‚PS IF YA HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR A WORSTCASE SCENERIO IN HEALING ? I HAVE TO LEARN A NEW WAY OF LIFE AND CAN;T PICK THE SAME KINDA MATE THAT I ALWAYS HAD ABUSIVE AND BROKE MY SPIRIT TO BE ME … THANKS AGAIN I LOOK FOWARD TO MORE YOU HAVE TO SAY =} SHERRIE
Thanks, Burt. For years I have been trying to understand and put meaning to that word, Love, the young just married lovers you talk about. There is feeling there,… untill.… yes everyone has a different way of understanding, thank you so much for helping me to understand my own feelings on this subject.
Also, thanks for all the time you have put into the MindBox.
Thank you soo much for al your wise words thank you
It has help me tremendously,and more than any thing I thank God for your willingness to share to others.\
Sara
Burt: Thank God for your wisdom, but especially, Thank God, for your willingness to share.
xoxoxo
I enjoyed the video, especially the last part of it: if you may not like the means, you might love the ends!
However, motivation does not always work in love matters of a “personal” and “sentimental” nature.
For instance, thinking that someone meant enough to you that you married them, or that you loved them so much you could only see the positive side of the picture, does not always help overcome the obstacles couples encounter during their relationship…
Especially when another object of love enters the picture and obscures the memory of the old.
Something that works better in “love” of a sentimental nature, in my view, is holding onto the feelings you experienced during the first moments of that relationship. Moreover, view obstacles and temptations of division as attempts of envious third party to destroy what they don’t have. They might even end up looking like compliments and reinforce your relationship, instead of damaging it…
thanks, so many times people does not understand that definition, You said I love you and people frequently understand that in one meaning. I really like to listen you.
dear burt,
yes I really want to share about my life
story, Since that I have to live together with
my in-laws I never feel the kind of love just
like my own family, before. all the time she
always get angry with me, but I never do anything wrong, and why she treat me just like
this?please brother burt I need your advice and
I need some help also, but anyway I can still
manage my self, thanks a lot to all my friend there. I hope all everything is fine and to become successful.
Burt,
Thank you for your definition of Love=a positive viewpoint.
I believe love is an action word and I would like to hear you speak to this sometime.
Thanks much, Theresa
Burt.
This was brilliant.
I have wrestled with this concept for many years, and I have never heard it described so simply yet so well.
Thank you.
Bert explains complex things in a way that any person can understand,regardless of that persons background.This is a wonderful quality of the American Monk.
Thank you Burt for this input.
You are doing a great job bringing deep understanding to what most people take for granted.
Burt your not gonna believe this but I was watching East of Eden with James Dean starring in it And he used the verse “every day in every way I’m getting richer”
Love.……They say there is only two real things in our existance. Love and fear. If not one it is the other. Seeing the negative to me is the same as seeing the night sky. How can there be night without day? Yes dwelling on the “negative” creates more heavy energy to go through. But not acknowledging it’s presence is maybe even more harmful.
The opposite of love to me is indifference.…not hate. Hate still shows you care. Indifference shows apathy one step above dead on the vibrational scale.
Maybe the point is to look at the negative aspects with love and transform the energy into positive energy. If I saw my partner brushing their teeth and it began to irritate me I would look inside and find the real issue. Every answer is inside us just as the seeds of love are.
Anyway just a thought
Thank you, Burt. Great timing, too… I want to apply this to someone who seems to not want to talk to me. The only part that bothers me is that they see me negatively…I don’t really think any worse of them, obviously, because I still want to talk to them…
Yes, I did get a diamond in this one lol. I like the way you teach, because I like helping others by using the subjects you talk about. I like inspiring people with things that can literraly change the way people live, and help them create new or good things.
Thanks Burt
ps: Oh yeah, you should do a painting and title it “A Pot of Goldman”
LOL
Thanks Burt. Once again excellent advice. You made it so easy to relate to any situation. Look forward to your next blog.
thank you very much for your wonderful teaching…May you be happy always …and may all your readers benefit from your words of wisdom…keeper of the light..I send you lots of love and good wishes.
love,
Mom
I have done battle with chronic depression for forty years. I have tried most methods that everyone else has: counseling, medication, prayer, physical fitness regimen, personal accomplishments, meditation, martial arts. But nothing put everything together as effectively as the Mind Box series. Burt, you have helped me and everyone in this house. Incidentally, the Mind Box techniques are excellent for martial arts training and competition.
LOVE as BURT talked much about…from the (stand point)“human’mind Positive definition”.
So this Love has its opponent Hate.
But TRUE LOVE (of God)that BURT said a little is unconditioned as written by Pete Hughes and Morgine .
We — humankind, are from the Devine Source — could express the same True Love if we cultivated it .
Love,
SON.
Dear Burt.
Love is an energy.
When I do my mantra “yes,I choose love”,“Yo escojo el Amor”,or “Yo soy el amor de Dios”.
Almost every time I receive It is VIBRATIONS.…
Therefore by experience LOVE is the most powerful experience that Human being can have in this Dimension .…and It is FREE.
Jose
Dear Burt I am so happy and great full that I am able to have met you,through the development of technologies. You give and give thank you. It is all about perception and all you need is love.Everyday in every way with the help of your words of inspiration we are all getting better and better.
Again thank you
Mark
Thank you so much for your dedication Burt.
I give your viewpoint on Love a DIAMOND rating.
What I also appreciate is that you show us ways to use this.
Have a good HSP day — health, smile, peace.
Denise
Hi Burt–
I really did like what you had to say about love. That is, romantic love.In my experience, romantic love is variable, and could even be a fickle emotion. At best, could we call it being in “like” with someone? To me there is only one true love, and that is found within. When that is realized, love becomes impartial, impersonal, whatever. It is just a state of being.
Thanks, Burt! Your comments are so insightful, I am going to include them when I write to my prison-penpals! There are very few positive aspects for those guys in there.
I LOVE you Burt. I LOVE listening to you, no matter what you say. Have to add though, I think women are less judgemental, (not about other women) but to their men. I separated from mine, whom I adore, because he at first worshipped me, then proceeded to try to change me.
“Why don’t you get your hair cut?”, “Why don’t you wear skirts”, “Why don’t you wear stockings and …”, I’m sure get the picture.
The odd thing is, I loved him, despite his belching, breaking wind, strutting around naked, paunch and all.
So there’s my point. Women just love unconditionally. Much love to you Burt. Liz.
Thank you Burt for words of wisdom on love and hate. Love is at one end of the spectrum and hate at the other..Get to love whatever it is you want to do… Looking for good as Dennis Waitley has been saying for so long in anything you do, think, in a person, in what happens to you… That is the way to go… Wow! If everyone could understand that and go there! Richard Carlson would also say the same thing… do you have to be smart to be loving? It seems so obvious to me that is all you have to do…
What if you love this person and he loves you too, but he felt in love with someone for five years. He says he love both of us. He tells me he love me more. He doesn’t love her as much, because she argue about every little thing. She is very jealous. He wants to leave her along, but in spite of her attitude, he loves her. I said in time he will no what to do, because if I tell him to leave her along in a demanding way, he just going to stay with her. He be with her on Saturdays. Please advise on how to handle my love for him in this type of situation.
Hi Burt, Thank you for your thoughts about love..Being a Virgo I think I love too many people But I can only say I LOVE YOU to my soul mate because to me that is a special meaning, and yet have to find him LOL Lili
HI Burt,
I loved your point regarding LOVE, I Love to Love and I often say to my few friends I have there is also a difference in the meaning of love, (My opinion only )You can love anyone and say you love to everyone, But the one your heart belongs to your soul mate is the only one you are IN LOVE with.. Hope this makes sense but I am a virgo and I love to love Have a great day and thanks for you inspiring thoughts… Lili
Thanks Burt
An interesting perspective. I would contend that Love never judges anything either positive or negative. Love is unconditional, complete, unconditional acceptance of whatever is.
Once you stray into judgment, be it either positive or negative, you have moved away from Love.
I would also contend that there cannot be degrees of Love. One either loves or one does not. One either completely accepts what is or one judges it positive or negative.
What you are talking about here is really just deciding what colour spectacles to wear.
Nothing is more breathtakingly beautiful than viewing the world without the judgmental mind as a filter, without putting on any coloured spectacles at all.
http://www.happycow.org.uk/thought/coloured_specs.shtml
Thanks, great Burt:-) This should be thaught at school to children, so children can teach their parents and make a better world.
Thanks! I think love is natural. You do not even need a positive outlook. Just let go of the negative outlooks which overshadow love. The reason why love is natural is that who we really are is the “Source of Love”. Who we really are is not what we think we are, it is beyond words and thoughts. We are one and the same, the “Source of Love”. It is indescribable, but we know who we are before we start thinking. So love does not depend on our outlook, it depends on where we come from. When we come from our natural state, we are in Love.
This is a real treasure: to focus on positive view points about life and you and me…
Which is quite the opposite to what we are currently conditioned to think through the medias etc.
It doesn’t mean that we ignore the negative, but rather that we transmute it through our love.
Sure, it isn’t that easy when dealing with big issues, like loosing a child. And what about so much misery in the world? People, animals, nature being sacrificed for the benefit of a handful!
An attitude of love has nothing to do with not caring and being satisfied with one’s own little comfort.
It has everything to do with seeing the light, looking at what is positive, and standing up without fear to let it happen.
Get up!
Thank you Burt for your insights.
In love,
Eric
“Nothing has meaning except the meaning we give it.” someone once said. Which is what your conversation is all about. To me, communicating with animals and nature for over 20 years, their love is “without conditions”. Love is the “essence of all life”. It is the seed from which all life was born …for God/Divinity/All That Is …“so loved the world”..
Real love embraces anything and everything with which it comes in contact with. Real love embraces beauty and ugliness, pain and joy, anger and peace. Real love is about becoming totally Vulnerable. Loving for the sake of loving without asking anything in return. I love for the sheer joy it brings me!
If you study the work of Dr. Masaru Emoto and his study of water, you find a single word can transform the structure of water! Thoughts create change when said over water, or written on paper and placed on a vial or glass of water. WE human beings are living breathing vessels of water, about 75% and our brains 85%. When we “think” thoughts of anger, hatred, resentments, judgments, guilt about ourselves or others, we are actually POLLUTING our own bodies!! Those beautiful snowflake crystals are turning into those ugly copper looking pancakes. We are making ourselves sick and we are creating dis-ease within our own bodies with those kinds of thoughts.
Therefore it serves each of us to focus on LOVE without conditions, because in doing so, we nurture our own bodies and everything around us. Most people desire to be loved and adored and appreciated. Therefore you GIVE TO OTHERS what you want to RECEIVE yourself. Because IF life is “a mirror” of your thoughts, then giving love to everything, free of conditions, will bring love back to you in the same way.
We attempt to make life so complicated in so many ways, when in reality it is quite simple. When you begin to SEE THROUGH THE EYES OF YOUR HEART, your life is transformed and your view points change. There is no good, bad, right, wrong, positive, negative. There are only millions of different points of view, because like each leaf on a tree, each blade of grass, each snowflake, each human being is a One of a Kind Original. We are each Unique! It is time to CELEBRATE OUR DIFFERENCES and love without conditions and the things we are not enjoying can transform with true love. Sharing anger and judgments and the like, only serves to perpetuate the same and no deep healing occurs. Give what you want to receive. Share love instead.
I created my own bumper sticker on line. “Why be normal? Love Without Conditions!”
Endless Love & Magic, Morgine
you have that right, burt
thank you for explaining it in more simple terms
but.…do we have to love everything we hate?
Basically what you’re saying vis a vis doing chores you ‘hate’ is to keep your eyes on the prize…washing dishes makes a sparkling clean kitchen, studying becomes learning. But with loving people, I think, it’s a tad different. You can help a relationship you want by focusing on a person’s good points all the while keeping in mind that you are not always the apple of the other person’s eye either…everyone has challenges in their life’s journey. Therefore it behooves us all to keep that perspective. Burt, this was a great video blog.
How are you doing Burt? For me love is a feeling or
emotion. Now, your definition changes it all.
Viewpoint includes feeling or emotion plus more.
Thank you for this new knowledge that I gain.
Burt!! Right ON!
I Love that. Yassir…‘Change your thinking…and you change your LIFE’
Info for Life. Thankyou !!
Earl
Dear Burt,
Your definition on love is really very true!!!
Happy to hear your encouraging words everytime…
Thanks alot..
thanks that was very good. Look at the world differntly and the world will look at you differently.
Peace and love to every one
Grattitude to you for your wisdom
Thank you Burt. This has been inspiring for me. I apply this to my son regarding loving learning. Have a nice day.
love is emotional,which is sudden, have no eyes to see future and cosequences. But your definition is good and well presented.
thanks
Dear Monk, You may not beleive this but my husband and I have been married for 45 years now and he still cannot see/find any negative in me.He is not even looking to find one.This is unconditional love at its best and I am grateful for that every moment of the day !!! There is nothing else I can ask for. He is also my best friend in whom I can and do confide with my deepest thoughts and to whom I read everything that I write– poems, spiritual articles etc., and ask for his opinion. I AM BLESSED.
thank you,Burt, for raising the issue of Love so that I could write here about my own experience with it.
With Love and Gratitude — Li-Aura.
Good morning,
LOVE, my definition, is simply “acceptance” in any degree. Our level of tolorence may increase or decrease according to what’s going on in our lives that particular moment in time, but as long as we accept something, someone, some type of behaivor; love is present… and Love is Love no matter what the degree.
there is not definition of love, the moment you define it you lose the power of what true love is. Three things to illustrate my point. An artist paints a rose is an interpretation of a rose, it is not the rose, it is not an actual picture of a rose, it is interpretation. A gardener works with a rose, the gardener knows about the rose, what makes it grow, how to tend to it but still is not close to knowing what it is to be a rose and then there is the rose itself, the very thing the rose is. To define the rose is to lose the beauty of the rose itself. A rose is a rose is a rose as love is love is love. No one knows what love really is, we only think we know what it is. Love is a great paradox.
Hi Burt, I think the idea is ‘see the positives not the negatives and you will find you love and enjoy things more’. This sounds like a great message. Is there any positive in seeing a negative though? The reason I ask is that people look at the negatives with regularity so you would have thought there was a reason for it. Thanks for this discussion.
Good Morning,
Thank you for the word of wisdom.
Sev
Hi BURT, we LOVE U 4EVER xx Thank you for
giving me my LOVE back !!!!
Burt … well done and good thinking for all to learn from as a simple way to be aware of projections into the world, and what they do to us one versus the other projection … may all godly good in life come your way
hi, burt!
wow, this ain’t no tip-of-the-day stuff! no tip-of-the-year, either!… it’s tip-of-life jewel! (and i love life sooo much!)
thank you again! :-}
i really don’t want bother you, but i must repeat my earlier question! basically (& optimized) it goes like this: can misabled persons adjust some exercises according to their particular *misabledness*? we sorted out that the *mind* is the only true prerequisite for meditation! but isn’t the *body* necessary for action? what if *body* doesnt/can’t listen/react? or a part of body?…
personal (drastic) example: i can’t move most my body-parts, including my tongue — can’t do the bagha! can visualisation replace this? (meanwhile i’m trying to visualise drawing/deploying the dwaddle!… i’ll report results! ;-} )
once again, thanks for your time! :-}
bye, dras
Thank you again, My Dear Monk!
Happy to hear you, always!
Burt you are superman.. im off now to “sparkle” my cooker !!! thanks xx